Your days are rushed.
Your evenings stressed.
You crash into bed, exhausted and half-asleep.
You wake up in the morning and even before your eyes open, you feel the stress of the day crawl up your throat.
You look at each other as you get out of bed and you know...
... it's going to be yet another same ol’, same ol’ day.
We see you, friend.
We see you struggling to keep that much-needed spark alive in your marriage.
We see you searching for a way to make the time for each other and create a thriving Christian marriage.
We see you hurting as you fail to live your best life as a couple.
We see you, friend.
...there haven't been any proven-to-work programs for couples who want a thriving, connected marriage while juggling busy lives and never-ending to-do lists.
Hi there! We're Mike and Carlie Kercheval.
We've been married 18+ years and have 3 beautiful children.
We can tell you that we're Certified Marriage Mentors® and are authors of the best-selling book, Consecrated Conversations: 30 Devotions for Couples but we'd rather tell you this...
We've been where you are right now...
Raising young kids, running a home, running a business, homeschooling our children, keeping up extended family relationships and losing ourselves in the process.
Feeling burned out and exhausted, tempted to just "quit" everything.
We've rushed past each other in the hallway and barely connected at the dinner table.
With Mike being in the military for nearly 15 years and with 7+ years of separation due to combat deployments, things definitely weren't easy for us.
Not just that, we've suffered the loss of two children, struggled to make ends meet, and have been dealing with Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) and Tramautic Brain Injury (TBI).
We both come from broken homes with divorced parents and no real model of what a Christian marriage would even look like.
It's only when we came together that we were able to see and discover that marriage can be successful when you're together in Christ.
As a couple who loves Jesus, we were committed to our marriage and needed a way to reconnect when life threw busy, stressful seasons at us so we could make our marriage stronger and more meaningful.
We just didn't have the know-how.
And we didn't know what to focus on.
What we did have was a fierce and unwavering desire to have a rock-solid, Christ-focused marriage.
With plenty of trial and error and endless prayers, we were able to create a framework to help us pinpoint the most important goals to focus on and most importantly, create the time to accomplish those goals.
Now we can't wait to pass on those skills to you!
Our mission is to help married couples create a positive, passionate and purpose-filled marriage, one day at a time.
It is simple.
We empower you to master the art of navigating your time and setting intentional goals to reconnect with each other and create the marriage of your dreams!
Together, we will:
Inside the From Roommates to Soulmates™ program, you'll find the ultimate grace-fueled goals system designed to help busy Christian couples to make time for what truly matters to them - their marriage:
Module 1: Resetting Your C.O.M.P.A.S.S.
With this module, you'll discover our insanely simple yet ridiculously effective “reset your C.O.M.P.A.S.S.” strategy that works for even the busiest couple.
You'll gain a deep understanding of what is important to you and your spouse and how you can work together to create a marriage you love; together.
Module 2: Getting Your Priorities Straight
In this module, you'll work together to create a laser-focused list of priorities according to where you're at in your life and marriage today. This module gives you the skills to know what your priorities should be in every season of life. Total game changer.
Most importantly, you'll become proficient in the much-needed art of saying "yes" to what matters and "no" to what doesn't help you stay focused on your priorities.
Module 3: Marriage Goal Navigation
Now you’re ready to set realistic, specific grace-fueled goals for the short-term and long-term.
You’ll master an effective yet easy way to stay on track with your goals.
Also, because we know life can get messy, we'll arm you with strategies to bounce back when you don't reach those goals.
Module 4: Creating Your Rock-Solid Plan
It's time for you to create a positive plan of action to move forward with your goals on the micro and macro level.
You'll add daily, monthly and yearly planning tools to your Time Navigation toolbox to keep you focused, motivated and inspired at all times.
Most importantly, you'll strengthen your commitment to your marriage with a 5-year plan that will excite you and not overwhelm you.
Module 5: Setting Up Fail-Proof Systems
This is it.
The 5th and final step that will propel you forward with follow-through and systems so you can evaluate your progress without getting distracted.
You'll build your own grace-fueled goals system so your spouse and you can continue to set goals and move forward together with flexibility and grace for each other.
"Our marriage was at its breaking point when we stumbled across a blog post by Mike and Carlie. When they shared this 5-Step C.O.M.P.A.S.S. with us, it completely blew our expectations out of the water. Not only did we start to see the parts we both played in living like roommates, it gave us a way out! If you are desperately looking for a way to get your passion, clarity, and motivation back for your spouse, From Roommates to Soulmates™ is a MUST HAVE." -Megan and Torrance
"Mike and Carlie use their talents and experience to give inspiration and practical tools to couples who want to empower and regenerate their relationship." Andrew + Sara Elizabeth
"My husband and I have been married nearly 20 years, and we've experienced seasons where we felt more like we were simply roommates. We still loved each other, but we had grown apart. From Roommates to Soulmates has helped us shift our priorities back to each other, communicate better, set goals for our marriage, and grow to be soulmates again." -Rebekah Hallberg
"Often we think about our individual goals for career, business, and even goals related to our character. Finally after 14 years of marriage, we are excited to sit and make intentional goals for our marriage and family. The goal setting planner is just the tool we needed to help us on our new track of setting annual goals for our family." -Latonya and Vic
"Married couples need tangible resources for setting realistic, achievable and inspiring goals together. This Goal Setting Planner for Couples is a simple-yet-powerful way for any couple to strategically build a stronger, better marriage. I highly recommend it!" -Alicia Michelle
"Consecrated Conversations is a breath of fresh air for a marriage that is struggling. This solid resource gives couples a way to move forward together in the light of God's Word." -Danika Cooley
You wake up every morning, energized and ready to enjoy every moment of the day.
Your marriage feels refreshingly new and exciting.
There's healthy conversation and connection flowing through your relationship.
You discuss and plan goals that give real depth to what you want from life.
There is passion, and there is power in every moment of your lives.
Your to-do lists have magically shrunk and your calendar has a delightful amount of white space.
Your kids are thriving and you enjoy the sweet memories you're making with them every day.
No longer do you hear yourself say, "I don't have time. I'm too busy."
You do have time.
You do have energy and hope.
You do have purpose and passion.
It's like you have a fresh perspective on life.
You've finally embraced God's gift of time and learned how to use it with careful consideration in your life and marriage.
For less than the price of a meal for your family at Chipotle, you can get instant access to a complete ready-to-use framework to reclaim your marriage, navigate time and goal-setting, with grace, intention and ease.
How do I know this will work?
The reason From Roommates to Soulmates™ will work is because we’ve personally tested it. This isn't just something that we've thrown together and hope will work. No, we live and experience the positive effects of this in our marriage every day.
As a Christian couple with 18+ years of marriage on our side, we have had plenty of time to put the framework we share with you into action.
Most modern marriage resources focus either on the wife or the husband. That's a very singular view of the subject.
The truth is that in order for a marriage course to work for the modern family, both the husband and wife need to master the skills together and that is where From Roommates to Soulmates™ sets the bar super high.
I don't even have time to shower. How will I have the time to go through this?
Excellent point! That is exactly why we're giving you instant access to the complete course so you can go through it at your own pace.
On days when you have more breathing room, you can zoom through lessons while on other days, you can do just one lesson or two.
In addition, we've kept our lessons strategically short and to-the-point so they're fluff-free and laser-focused to help you get straight to the heart of the matter.
Will I get anything in the mail?
No. This is a digital program and everything will be delivered electronically via email.
How will I access my course?
As soon as you enroll, you'll get an email from Teachable with your access information and details. You'll be able to access your program from any digital device, including your phone, tablet and your laptop.
How long do I have access for?
How does LIFETIME access sound?! Yes, you get instant lifetime access to all the modules so you can go through them at your own pace AND come back to them whenever you need a refresher.
Do You Offer Refunds?
Due to your purchase being a digital product immediately accessible at the time of purchase, we do not offer refunds or cancellations. All purchases are binding. Please be sure to understand what you are buying and ask any and all questions prior to your purchase.